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Dr. Pat Allen

PAT ALLEN, PhD Marriage & Family Therapist
Duty Dating® Counselor
Director, WANT® Institute
To make an appointment with Dr. Pat Allen, call Sue at 949-723-0338
or 800-496-3983

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I'm Dr. Pat Allen.

Join me in carrying the message of loving communication to your relationships, families, jobs, and careers, so our children may live in a love-filled world.

I wish you and those you love a joyous, peaceful, and sharing time.

Life is a gift; I want to give something back.


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The
Art of Loving
Seminar

Learn to get what you want of life by asking for what you want and saying "no" to what you don't want.


Dr. Pat Allen's Weekend Retreat for
Women and Men, Singles and Couples

Aldersgate Retreat
Pat will be at Aldersgate Retreat Center, Pacific Palisades, California, Oct. 3-5, 2008 offering workshops on The physical and emotional aspects of being a spiritual person. For additional information call Jim Hallowes 310-390-4767.

For more information click here. To Register click here.


Two new testimonials for Dr. Pat Allen

Two well-known relationship experts praise Dr. Pat Allen's impact on their lives.

Marianne Williamson Dr. John Gray

Best-selling author Marianne Williamson ("Age of Miracles," "Everyday Grace").

Dr. John Gray, of "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" fame, and acclaimed lecturer.

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The Brand New DVD "The Answers from Dr. Pat Allen"

Duty Dating DVD

Get It Now
on DVD!

"THE ANSWERS" from Dr. Pat Allen DVD is the first-ever collection of her insights and philosophies from over 30 years of practicing couples counseling, her weekly jam-packed seminars, workshops, and various appearances on TV and radio.

• Reverse negative feelings immediately
• Realize what the 5 "Curses" are in life, and the antidotes.
• Get the quintessential primer on how to Duty Date®
• Discover Dr. Allen's coveted negotiation tools
• Hear Dr. Allen's foolproof formula on how to know if you
   really love someone

Prepare yourself for better love and a better life!

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Watch Footage of Pat Doing Couple's Counseling
on "I Love New York 2"

Link to I Love New York Were you one of the 25 million viewers who watched Dr. Pat Allen help Tiffany select her mate on VH1's most popular show "I Love New York 2"?

Pat Allen helping Tiffany "New York" Pollard on "I Love New York 2" find her match. Watch Pat doing couple's counseling with New York and her final 5 suitors. Pat helped New York find what she says she was looking for, and that's a "wife," in the form of "Tailor Made." As Pat teaches, it doesn't matter who's the Yin and who's Yang in a relationship, just as long as there is one of each!

I Love New York FramegrabWe understand that New York and Tailor Made are now happily engaged! We wish them all the best... It'll be interesting to see if New York really does want a wife rather than a husband. (?) And maybe, just maybe, there'll be an "I Love New York 3" with Dr. Pat Allen doing marriage counseling??

Watch the opening intro segment followed by Pat doing couples counseling. We think you'll agree it's both funny and enlightening.

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Reverend Michael Beckwith, star of "The Secret,"
talks about Dr. Pat Allen

Rev. Michael Beckwith
Reverend Michael Beckwith, who is the founder and spiritual leader of the Agape Spiritual Center, star of the movie "The Secret," and who's now frequent guest on Oprah Winfrey says "Pat is a rare gift for our society."

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Bob Proctor, star of "The Secret," praises Dr. Pat Allen.

Bob Proctor
Mr. Proctor is a best-selling author and is known for his teaching people how to get their mind in harmony with "The Law of Attraction."

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Sample Excerpts of Dr. Pat Allen's Best-Selling Books

Getting To I Do Conversational Rape


Pat appears in a new documentary film,
"Six (and a half) Secrets of Love"

Documentary clip
Dr. Pat Allen is featured along with John Gray, author of "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus," in Barbara Schroeder's in-depth documentary on love and relationships, which recently premiered at the Hollywood DV Film Festival. Ms. Schroeder has generously allowed us to post a few scenes from her film.
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Dr. Pat Allen Featured on FOX-TV

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Dr. Pat Allen guested recently on Fox News' program "Midday Sunday" with Tony Valdez discussing relationships and the effects of oxytocin on wayward NASA Astronaut Lisa Marie Nowak.

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The Long Wait Is Over! Dr. Pat Allen WANT® Institute Classes for Coaches and Therapists has started!


Want Institute Logo Certified Training Classes for Coaches and Therapists commenced in January. It is a sophisticated educational journey at the cutting edge of Evidence Backed Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Coaching. Note: The Institute is a California 501(c)3 Non-Profit educational organization. Register now for next year's classes.

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New Dr. Pat Allen 5-DVD Set on
"The Art of Relationships."


DVD cover More than 6 hours of Pat Allen explaining in detail how to set boundaries, develop your communication skills and improve your relationships delivered on the recent "The Art of Relationships" Cruise to Alaska. Click below to view a few minutes of excerpts from this powerful lecture series.

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"Highly Sensitive People — An Introduction
to the Trait of High Sensitivity"


HSP-DVD cover A 65-minute presentation by Jim Hallowes, founder of www.HighlySensitivePeople.com, on the Trait of High Sensitivity, and how to deal with it in yourself and in others, delivered on the recent "The Art of Relationships" cruise, with Special Guest Dr. Pat Allen. HSPs are what Dr. Pat Allen often calls her "Alphas," bright sensitive creative people who have an ongoing tug-of-war between their head and their heart. Check out the Internet Links page on Jim's website to find out about the monthly HSP Meetups in L.A.

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Dr. Pat Allen Keeps 'em in Their Seats!


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Dr. Pat Allen "wows" an audience of more than 750 last year, in a session lasting well into the evening hours. If you want to look into having her speak at your organization, or have a workshop with your group, have your Events or Meeting Planner or Speakers Bureau representative visit the Dr. Pat Allen "Speakers Bureau" friendly website — www.MeetDrPatAllen.com — to find speaking clips and scheduling information.


5-CD Audio Seminars and Workbook.


Secrets of Love CD Set

Dr. Pat Allen's "The Secrets of Loving" 5-CD set and Workbook. Ten topics on five audio CDs. This was originally released on audio cassette as part of the "Lifetime of Love" Deluxe Set, and is being made available now as a stand-alone set on both standard cassette and Audio CD-ROM. Almost 15 hours of insights from Pat on Getting and Keeping the Right Partner, Sex and Commitment, Conflicts and Communication, Sex and Obsessions, Phases of a Relationship, Flirting to Attract, Guidelines for Returning to the Dating Scene, Masculine and Feminine Energies. • Listen to a 3-minute excerpt.
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Dr. Pat Allen in Person


Live, weekly on stage, in Los Angeles and weekly workshop in Orange County.... "Using a blend of humor and outrageousness to cut through the psychobabble, Dr. Pat Allen irreverently fields audience questions about love, sex and relating. And they get an earful," proclaims Los Angeles Magazine.

  • Every Monday evening at the Los Angeles Odyssey Theatre.
  • Every Wednesday evening in Newport Beach Dr. Pat Allen hosts a group workshop for a lively evening of self-discovery filled with humor and wisdom for singles and couples.

Workshops and Retreats


Duty Dating DVD

Get It Now
on DVD!

The Movie Based on Dr. Pat Allen Now on DVD!

“Duty Dating® is the snappy, wisecracking romantic, motion picture comedy inspired by Dr. Pat Allen's best-selling book "Getting to ‘I Do’."  It's all about True Love. We all want it. How do we get it? If love could be bottled and sold, our painful longings would end. “Duty Dating” is the magical film that examines this desire and gets results.

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Pat Allen DVD

Get It Now
on DVD!

See Dr. Pat Allen on DVD!

We've created a demo DVD of Pat Allen for Speakers Bureaus and meeting planners, with clips of her appearances on Oprah, CNN and other programs showing her unique, humorous way of delivering power-packed, uplifting messages which appeal to the hearts of everyone.

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Pat's Recommended Reading List


Pat's Recommended Reading List....

You've requested it; here it is — Dr. Pat Allen's definitive recommended reading list. Tap the sources and inspiration. Go in depth. Educate and motivate yourself. Get the facts. Learn something new about yourself and others.
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To make an appointment with Dr. Pat Allen,
call Sue at 949-723-0338 or 800-496-3983


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